Katy Perry – I Kissed A Girl And I Liked It – A Timely Song

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in
possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.

However little known the feelings or views of such a man may
be on his first entering a neighbourhood, this truth is so well
fixed in the minds of the surrounding families, that he is considered
the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters.”

- the opening lines to Jane Austen’s “Pride & Prejudice”

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For anyone who has not been following popular music recently, for the last month Katy Perry’s Single “I Kissed A Girl” has been number one on the iTunes and Billboard charts.  According to Wikipedia, the song hit #1 in over 30 countries around the world.

Some songs reach popularity because they arrive on the scene at a culturally opportune moment.

Some songs reach popularity because they express a common feeling or frustration.

Other songs become popular because they communicate a multi-sensory aesthetic of a particular idea or action.

“I Kissed A Girl” appears to be effectively pushing all of those buttons.

The lyrics of the song struggle with a woman’s decision to kiss another woman.  And while the action is unfamiliar and questioned by the singer, on one point she is clear: 

Whether it was wrong or right, she enjoyed it.

Her proclamation, with some enthusiasm, is that in light of the ethical debates about such an action, she wants it to be known that for her personally, she liked the pleasures she experienced in kissing another woman.

And that simple rebellious note seems to be resonating with many people at this cultural moment in time.

Another interesting aspect of the song is that it doesn’t present the moral dilemma (and it does express it as a moral dilemma) as simply a choice of being exclusively straight or exclusively homosexual.  The narrator of the tale has a boyfriend and is questioning not so much if she is gay, but rather she is questioning whether she might be bisexual (“I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it”).

“I Kissed A Girl” music & lyrics by Cathy Dennis, Max Martin, Lukasz Gottwald & Katy Perry

This was never the way I planned
Not my intention
I got so brave, drink in hand
Lost my discretion
It’s not what I’m used to
Just wanna try you on
I’m curious for you
Caught my attention

I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don’t mean I’m in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

No, I don’t even know your name
It doesn’t matter
Your my experimental game
Just human nature
It’s not what good girls do
Not how they should behave
My head gets so confused
Hard to obey

I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don’t mean I’m in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

Us girls we are so magical
Soft skin, red lips, so kissable
Hard to resist so touchable
Too good to deny it
Ain’t no big deal, it’s innocent

I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chapstick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right

Don’t mean I’m in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it

© All rights reserved by the respective artists.

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“I Kissed A Girl” on Wikipedia

Katy Perry on Wikipedia

You can hear the above song here on Katy Perry’s MySpace page:

http://www.myspace.com/katyperry

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79 comments so far

  1. Moth on

    I have serious qualms with this song. Not only does it present girl-on-girl action as something that “nice girls” don’t do, the narrator of the song is also deliberately using another woman whose name she does not even know to further her own knowledge of her sexuality.

    I have heard many songs in which men were using women for sexual experiences, I don’t see why this song about a woman doing the same should be any better.

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    OneMoreOption: I appreciate your thoughtful criticism.

    I’m not sure your literal reading of the lyrics is necessarily what Katy Perry intended. As in many of her songs, in this song, her tongue is firmly in cheek. I think she intelligently is using “sexist” euphemisms and sexual standard stereotypes to question, highlight, and poke fun at sexism and sexual standard stereotypes.

  2. kiera on

    hey kathy…brill song i luv it!! best of luck 4 da furture!! xx

  3. mikaela on

    hey katy you are awesome love the new song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  4. allyson on

    I LOVE IT KATY

  5. azucena on

    i love you do you!

  6. Anonymous on

    i love it and you are so nice!

  7. ♥Tutti_Fruty♥ on

    ♥I love Katy Perry!!♥

  8. sabine on

    I too love katy perry she is soo cool

  9. nanda on

    i love katy!!!!!!

  10. Donia on

    katty it sweet & a nice girl ..

  11. Miluś on

    Uwielbiam Katy jest zajebista!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  12. casy on

    it reminds me of my boyfreind, dylan…….i hate it!!!!!!!!

  13. sh*tter on

    Amazin. luvd it. XxXxX

  14. ewa on

    love katy perry cmok

  15. Patricia on

    your so sexy katy perry i love you so much im your no.1 fan!!!mwuahh!!!♥♥♥

  16. Sandra on

    I lOVE YOUR SONG IT’S SO AWESOME!!!!!!!

  17. Jill on

    Thank you!!!!It’s really amazing!!!!

  18. dave on

    YOU HAVE ONE HELL OF A LOVeLY VOICE

  19. Anonymous on

    love you . !

  20. esthefanny on

    katy I love you

  21. gdhz on

    aj love

  22. ReaL on

    I Love Katy and i love this song I kiss a girl that’s great

  23. Conor Clarke on

    hey katy great song! this songs says alot bout wat i think and wat many others probs think lol

    frm cc x : )

  24. denadenadena on

    I LOVE YOU KATY!! YOUR OUTFIT IS SO CUTE!! and i love your hot and cold song!! i’m your big fan!!!!

  25. karry on

    katy i love you and i love your songs

  26. Reagan on

    This song makes bisexual people sound greedy. Not all bisexual people kiss girls of the same sex whilst with someone of the opposite sex. For bisexual people, that’s cheating too >.>

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    OneMoreOption: Thank you for the considerate feedback.

    Yes, I think I see your point. For many bisexual people, this also may be cheating. But the lyric says “I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it.” For other bisexual people, this may not be cheating. It may depend on the relationship arrangements & boundaries – and whether there has been sufficiently transparent disclosures and acceptance of the co-existing relationships.

  27. ((¡¡¡R0s3!!!))) on

    I love to KATY PERRY is the best!!! Is it max!! I from Venezuela……Bye!!

  28. PaRaX on

    ye shes nice, alright want a fact guys? U DONT KNOW HER, what the hells wrong with you “Shes cool” did you ever speak to her eye to eye? seriously if she has the money and a beautiful voice that doesnt mean that shes a perfect person, no one is…

  29. gks on

    ♥♥♥ I LOVE YOU KATY ♥♥♥

  30. xxxXmimixXX on

    I love katy

  31. Vicky on

    I thinck you are a great singer but not the best, I LOVE YOUR SONGS !!! ther cool and i liker your acctitud it’s vevy cooll hahah well kip on going wiht your song

    (L)(L) beye (L)(L)

  32. henna on

    you are an super popstar

  33. julia on

    You are the best

  34. jdfskl; on

    i think your hot

  35. Claire on

    Katty is the best

  36. Anonymous on

    i love ketty

  37. Enrico on

    pas seulement très belle, mais un talent fou,

    continue comme ça et on t’aimeras de plus en plus, gros bisous.

  38. e on

    why do you give another view on all of the negative comments? it’s an opinion, even if it’s against katy perry.

    personally i think she gives bisexuals a bad name.

    want to give me one more option?

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    OneMoreOption: I guess I don’t know what to say to the positive “I Love You Katy” style comments, except “Okay. Sounds good.” So, I just post them.

    I tend to respond to criticisms on all the posts more often because the existence of a criticism suggests there’s some dispute or difference of opinion – so, that naturally invites more discussion of different viewpoints.

    I hear you saying you think Katy gives bisexuals a bad name. If you’d like to explain why, that might be interesting to hear.

  39. e on

    to be honest i stumbled on this when i was making a post secret. i didn’t know it was a blog of sorts.
    is it your blog?

    i feel bad now because i sounded rude =)

    but you have to see where i’m coming from!

    and yes, i think she makes them seem a little slutty, or a little…flighty? like, oh i like to kiss boys and girls because it’s fun. so i’m bi. there ya go.

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    OneMoreOption: No worries. Thank you for your comments.

  40. katy perry on

    hello katy perry i love song

  41. Cahh on

    Hello Katy Perry I Love You :)

  42. rfgxd on

    hello kety pery i love you ,.-)

  43. yair on

    te amo katy perry i love

  44. ♥Rabbit♥ on

    i effin love you!!! your my idol your music’s kickass!!!

  45. jennifer on

    I think intellectualizing this work of art (I’m holding back my urge to use quotations) is wha… you know what – it’s just lame.
    I love your review of ‘12 Reasons Why I Love Her” though. =)

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    OneMoreOption: Thank you for the compliments and criticisms.

  46. lula on

    hola tus canciones me gustas si no estan ten mal

  47. anonymous on

    omg guys… i <3 this song…

    I KISSED A GGGIIIRRRLLL and IIII LLLIIIKKKEEEDDD IIITTT!!!
    The taste of her cherry chapstick…

  48. katy on

    I love you Katy
    you are the best

  49. Anonymous on

    hi ketty perry my nameis caitlin d alonzo your the best

  50. Jessé Ribeiro on

    i Love Ketty vc é d +++ sou seu fâ N 1!”!!

  51. vip on

    hello katy perry!I love you song!!!

  52. mateus on

    katy i a brazilian boy
    I love you
    kisssssssssssssss

  53. Anonymous on

    i love you katty-perry

  54. matt on

    I see this song as more of a timid sexual exploration and triumph. I don’t think KP is, or implies she’s bisexual. The song over-sexualizes bisexuality because she says she has a boyfriend, and she kisses someone else.

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    OneMoreOption: Thank you for expressing your thoughts. I don’t know what you mean when you say, “The song over-sexualizes bisexuality.” How would a person or a song “over-sexualize” bisexuality?

  55. matt on

    more specifically, as sex-craving. what i mean is that the song lends this appeal to bisexuality.

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    OneMoreOption: And are you suggesting that attempting to make bisexual sex appealing is a bad thing?

  56. Anonymous on

    Katys awsome

  57. matt on

    NO! I feel like she is suggesting that her act of kissing another girl is being rebellious, implying that being bisexual is rebellious. I think the song is just kind of stupid because she thinks that she’s being rebellious by being bi. Meanwhile, as a bisexual, I’m kind of like “so what.” It’s like she’s exploiting bisexuality to be edgy and get media attention. This might be valid in a vastly heterosexual mainstream media, but as someone on the fringe, I kinda just want to tell her to go fuck herself.

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    OneMoreOption: Thank you for explaining your thoughts more clearly to me. You have expressed yourself beautifully. Lovely to hear your fight – even if she may not be our biggest adversary. Thank you.

  58. matt on

    Sure thing. Sorry to give you the wrong impression a first.

    At least the song is a little catchy.

    -Matt

  59. matt on

    What about her song “Ur so gay.” What the hell is wrong with her?

  60. iza on

    k onda cm taz sos super, estas en onda me llega la cancion de I KISSED THE GIRL y la de HOT N COLD.

  61. Daniela on

    Hola me gusta mucho tu musica y tu estilo

  62. Ranetka on

    Katy Perry is beautiful. Songs are nice.

  63. Thuany Grams on

    é tudo de bom!!!!

  64. Rute on

    a katy perri é muito gira sou tua fã

  65. Anonymous on

    Nem nagyon de szeretlek Katy Perry!nagyon szerencsés vagy hogy holivoodban élhetsz ! Sánta Adry NAGYON SZERET TÉGED!!!!!!!!XP

  66. camila♥ on

    copy♥ ♥ ♥
    and♥ ♥ ♥
    paste♥ ♥ ♥
    if♥ ♥♥♥♥
    you♥ ♥ ♥
    love♥ ♥ ♥
    katy♥ ♥ ♥
    perry♥ ♥ ♥

  67. chole on

    i love you

  68. julia on

    Katy ur soooooooooooooooo
    Awesome!!! Keep on rockin’!!!!!!:)

  69. Jonnie (Im a girl) on

    OMG I LOVE U AND UR MUSIC Hot n Cold is my favorite…..so far!(: u r sooo amazing and ur really pretty keep on rockin’ the music world

  70. Mad Stratter on

    haha all of these people replying TO katy perry like she runs this blog are hilarious.

  71. niez on

    good song

  72. .j on

    good song

  73. penny on

    This song is AWFUL. And, for anyone with an ounce of intelligence, INSULTING.

  74. melisa on

    ilove kate perrj

  75. 754-21-38 on

    I LOVE YOU. WILL YOU MARRY ME.IF YOU’RE YES COME TO MOSCOW.

  76. marvin on

    hay♥♥♥♥ katy parry i iovenu ♥♥

  77. Petria Belle on

    i love katy perry my kiss

  78. Anonymous on

    y love you katy

  79. Sharii on

    Ah my Gawd i’m doing a presentation about katy perry! :3

    Love you Katy <3


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